BECOME  The Woman
You’re Born To Be

A COACHING MEMBERSHIP TO HELP YOU LIVE, LOVE
AND LEAD IN A WAY THAT FEELS TRUE TO YOUR HEART

What Brought You Here?

You want to be happy or contribute in a meaningful way. You want to be loving and kind, because you genuinely care for people. You want to be productive because you aspire for bigger goals and ambitions. And you want to do it all with joy, grace and confidence.

But then life happens!

People say and do things and you get triggered

You take on too much and get overwhelmed or burnt out

When you think about pursuing your dreams, self-doubt kicks in. Do I have anything to share? Others are already doing this. Have I wasted my life?

Your inner critic gets loud. Really loud.

I’m spiraling and I hate myself like this. I’m acting like a cranky old woman and shouting at the kids constantly. Then spending all day in my head feeling terrible. I can’t focus. I can’t do anything. And I don’t know how to get out of it.

-NICOLE J

I’m spiraling and I hate myself like this. I’m acting like a cranky old woman and shouting at the kids constantly. Then spending all day in my head feeling terrible. I can’t focus. I can’t do anything. And I don’t know how to get out of it.

-NICOLE J

Dear wonderful woman, please stop!

Living a soulful, successful and heart-centered life is not easy.

Despite our best intentions, it’s easy to fall off-track or react in unhelpful ways when life throws us darts. And then we throw the “second darts” of shame and blame, neither of which help us show up with courage and compassion.

Besides, trusting our hearts and staying true to who we are is SO HARD when the world does all it can to make us who we’re not. There are few signposts to guide us — and no end to messages about who we should be and how we should act.

Introducing

BECOMING

Everything you need to win at work, live with joy,
and grow into the highest version of yourself.

Becoming is a research-backed and evidence-based program that brings you the knowledge and support you need to take your personal and professional growth to the next level.

What You'll Get

A Curated Roadmap

Becoming is based on a research backed framework of women’s flourishing. You’ll have peace of mind knowing that what you get is what works. Because really, do you have time and energy to sift through endless information to find what you’re looking for?

Monthly Masterclasses

On the 1st Monday of every month, at 5 pm EST, we gather to address a topic related to your career, relationships, confidence or wellbeing. I coach you on the latest science, share practical strategies to move forward, and we have live coaching and Q&A.

Consistent Support

The level of support in Becoming is unmatched. Intentions slip with fears, distractions and “urgent” tasks. You’ll get weekly reminders, a mid-month coaching call, and the priceless support of an online community.

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Peace of Mind

For 10+ years, I’ve been inspiring and coaching thousands of women to take charge of their personal and professional growth. And I’ve been doing the work alongside them. Because we are, after all, made of the same stuff.

Monthly Masterclasses

On the 1st Monday of every month, I’ll coach you on a topic related to your career, relationships, confidence or wellbeing. We’ll have live Q&A, and you’ll get a beautiful workbook to work through over the month.

 

Weekly Reminders

Each week, I’ll send you a reminder or prompt to stay on track, because life has a way of pulling us away from what’s important. There’s also bonuses and surprises, because hey, we have to have fun along the way!

Group Coaching

On the 3rd Monday of the month, we have a group coaching call where I coach you through your challenges. All month long, we support & celebrate with you in the Becoming library and our private FB community. 

Peace of Mind

For 10+ years, I’ve been inspiring and coaching thousands of women to take charge of their personal and professional growth through science-backed strategies and the support and accountability we all need to turn knowledge into real change. 

Like you, I’m a messy paradox of passions, roles and responsibilities. Like you, I long for more — more joy, more connection, more authenticity, more impact. And like you, I feel unhappy when I’m not being true to myself, and not living with my heart and soul.

I see you. I get you. Because I am you.

What I bring you in Becoming is years of research, experience and commitment to help women live, love and lead as their true and authentic selves.

How It Works

Over the course of a year, we cover the 6 essential components of flourishing, each for a 2 months period. We then begin again, addressing them in new ways. Because becoming who we are is the work of a lifetime.

You can join the membership at any time because the components are like a chain and not a ladder; they work horizontally, not vertically.

You can do just one 12-month program, or you can stay year after year finding strength and support in a community of fellow Becomers.

You can hop on and hop off for different components, although that won’t guarantee you the current price, nor the same level of success.

Your program helps me in more ways than I can describe in a paragraph. In the past I struggled with setting boundaries, managing stress, self doubt, heck, almost all the areas in this program pertained to me. Now I am able to cluster tasks, delegate work out, listen more intently, set boundaries & more. I was even able to tell someone I could no longer work on a project due to differences of opinions which relieved me of so much stress. Before this course I would never have been able to do that. I would have just added it onto my pile and complained about it to myself. My life has changed so much and for the better. Thank you, thank you, thank you Homaira for taking the time to share this with women; we need you and this program!

-DAWN S

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How You'll Change

Every month, we’ll go deep into one of the 6 pillars of flourishing, and turn our learning into transformation through a cycle of small steps and regular reflection.

Self-worth and Wisdom
No more agonizing over every decision, or beating down on yourself for not meeting your own standards. You’ll grow the most critical inner container of unconditional love & acceptance.

Trusting Relationships
Instead of pleasing, seeking approval or being hooked on praise, you’ll nurture healthy
relationships where you’re as comfortable asking for what you need, as you are willing to help.

Grace and Resilience
No more shame and blame when things don’t go as planned. No more restless action, or mindless numbing. You’ll harness the cycle of growth that can follow setbacks and negative feedback.

The Courage to Leap
The contentment of living with intention is priceless! You’ll stop being tossed around by fears and distractions, and stay focused on what’s important despite your doubts and emotions.

Energy and Confidence
Stop comparing yourself to others or feeling you don’t have what it takes to pursue your goals. You’ll own your strengths, have clarity of vision and keep striving toward purposeful goals.

Joy and Fulfillment
Enough trying harder and harder, and still feeling stuck or getting burnt out. You’ll learn to trust in yourself, others and life, so open up to more presence, more joy, more connection, more being.

Self-worth and Wisdom
No more agonizing over every decision, or beating down on yourself for not meeting your own standards. You’ll grow the most critical inner container of unconditional love & acceptance

Trusting Relationships
Instead of pleasing, seeking approval or being hooked on praise, you’ll nurture healthy
relationships where you’re as comfortable asking for what you need, as you are willing to help

Grace and Resilience
No more shame and blame when things don’t go as planned. No more restless action, or mindless numbing. You’ll harness the cycle of growth that can follow setbacks and negative feedback.

The Courage to Leap
The contentment of living with intention is priceless! You’ll stop being tossed around by fears and distractions, and stay focused on what’s important despite your doubts and emotions.

Energy and Confidence
Stop comparing yourself to others or feeling you don’t have what it takes to pursue your goals. You’ll own your strengths, have clarity of vision and keep striving toward purposeful goals

Joy and Fulfillment
The contentment that comes from living with intention is priceless! You’ll stop being tossed around by distractions or other people’s moods and agendas and stay focused on what’s important

Plus, an entire library of free resources and masterclasses to help you gain clarity of who you want to be and how you want to live your life.

Where to From Here?

2020 has been difficult for many of us. From grief to financial insecurity to the awareness that the world needs us more than ever, we’re beginning to question our lives, and driven to move forward in a way that feels heart-centered and soul-driven.

 This ebook will give you everything you need to get started. The answers lie within you. It’ll help you ask the right questions.

How To Reach Any Goal

Can’t shed that weight off? Can’t have that important conversation? Can’t take that bold risk even though the thought makes you giddy with excitement?

 Maybe the goal keeps showing up on every birthday intention and in every new year resolution. Or maybe you’ve given up on yourself and told yourself “I’ll never be able to do this!” or “Nothing will ever change!” Not with this 4-step process that’s research based and (almost) guaranteed to work!

Building Grit and Persistence

It’s easier to achieve short term goals, because the motivation sustains us. Its far more difficult to stay gritty toward long term goals because motivation wanes (that’s what it’s supposed to do), challenges come up, or the “urgent” keeps getting in the way.

 This workbook is based on the science of grit, and will help stay on track toward your long- term goals. Often, these are the ones most worth pursuing.

Planning for an Uncertain Future

Our lives have been upended in ways we never thought possible. And many of us are struggling to get back up on track because we don’t know what lies ahead. We’re either hanging on to what’s not working. Or drifting with whatever is coming our way.

This masterclass will help you plan in a way that’s flexible, yet aligned with who you are and what you aspire to become.

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One more thing…
The world is resetting. It’s calling for a different kind of life and leadership than the one we’re been living. Its calling for deeper connection with who we are, what we value, and how we want to show up.

Regardless of who you are and what you do, it’s calling YOU, dear conscientious woman, to become everything you long to be.

Let me help you. Let me show you how. Let me keep you on track every month.

Because life is becoming increasingly chaotic, stressful and uncertain. Random courses, a book here and there, even a few sessions with a coach will not be enough to help you honor your challenges and rise to the highest version of the wonderful women that you are.

In Becoming, I’ve got you covered.

In BECOMING, I bring you CONSISTENCY of support, motivation, guidance and strategies to help you live with joy, honor your struggles, show up with courage, and grow into the woman you’re born to be.

Because none of us is meant to do life alone.

And I’m here to guide you all the way!

FAQs

Q: What makes BECOMING different to other memberships?

A: A couple of things.

One, it’s a research backed program, supported by evidence-based practices, and specifically designed for women given our needs, challenges and aspirations are different.

Two, it’s high-touch, which means that you’re fully supported throughout the month. Between masterclasses is when the work of showing up in real life gets done 🙂

Q: How is it different to online courses or workshops?

A: Again, 2 key differences:

One, courses and workshops often address one area of your life. BECOMING helps you in all of life, because we don’t live a compartmentalized existence. Not as women at least!

Two, they don’t support you through the implementation. Knowing what to do rarely means we do it. We need reminders, revisits of the topic in different ways, and application of the learning in different areas of our lives.

Q: Who is it for? 

A: It’s for women who are committed to living and working in a way that feels authentic, purposeful and alive. And they know that they need guidance and support to do so.

Q: Is it good for me if I need to do deeper work? 

A: Becoming provides you with the tools, strategies and support to live the life you want. If you need more intensive support to get started, please check out individual coaching sessions.

Q: How long will I need to spend on it?

A: Believe it or not, you’ll actually SAVE time in your days because you’ll learn strategies that help you manage your mind, and stay focused, connected and energized in your work, relationships and life. The monthly masterclass itself is an hour long, and the weekly worksheets will take half an hour each at tops. The program is designed to add ease to your life, not increase your workload!

Q: What if some of the topics don’t apply to me?

A: Great question! You’ll find that all the topics are applicable, because we address them by widening your perspective, and empowering you with strategies that work in a variety of situations. For example, a parenting topic will help you lead and inspire anyone in your life, whether it’s a team, or your group of friends.

Q: What if I can’t attend a Masterclass?

A: Worry not! As a woman, you’re juggling many important things and dealing with the unexpected. You’ll get the recordings, worksheets and workbook by email AND they’ll be added to your Hub. Come when you can. You’ll know when you can’t.

Q: What if I fall behind?

A: There’s no falling behind my love! The topics don’t build on each other. We’re on a journey together, with everyone doing it at a pace that feels comfortable to them. Let go of the need to excel. Or to be perfect. All the material is there for you. Speed up and slow down as life permits. Just don’t stop!

Q: Will I get feedback on what I’m doing and / or struggling with?

A: Ample! Our private online community is a place for you to share your wins and setbacks. The combined wisdom and experience of a like-minded tribe is the best support you’ll get. I’m also active in the community and provide support regularly. And I always keep ample time at the end of each Masterclass for your questions and for live coaching.

Q: How do I ask a question in the Masterclass?

A: By typing it in the chatbox. If you can’t attend the session but have a question, send it in before the class and I’ll address it.

Q: Do you offer a refund?

A: Unfortunately not. It’s a monthly subscription priced as low as I possibly can for the value and support I provide. If you feel it’s not right for you, cancel before the end of your monthly billing cycle and you won’t pay anymore. If you face any issues with cancellation, please reach out to me at homaira@homairakabir.com

Q: What if I need technical support?

Of course! My wonderful support Zulany is always there to untangle any technical issues you may face. Please email her at hello@homairakabir.com. Having said that, the chances of technical issues are next to none.

I want you to know your words hit home with me every time. It’s truly sad that we are all struggling, but in my world of being a single, childless (by choice) working woman of 56, still trying to shake free from the intense trauma of my childhood, you speak words that help me to feel there is still hope for me, and a future of self empowerment and mastery to work toward. Keep going. You are needed.

– MONIQUE

I want to thank you for giving hope that we don’t have to settle with our daily struggles. Something can be done to improve it and your advices are here to help us along the way. And for providing the contexts and situations where I can identify myself (understand that I am not alone in this situation!) and put another perspective to it.

– JOY SWEET

Your words cross all over the word. I live in Portugal and you have done a lot for me for which I feel very grateful to you. I wonder if life can be so good to you as you are to women all over the world.

– HELENA

What I love most about you is finding you in my everyday quest to resonate with a soulful life. Merci for your timely words of wisdom. It’s the idea of seek & you shall find. I found you in my quest.

– KELLYANN

Your words cross all over the word. I live in Portugal and you have done a lot for me for which I feel very grateful to you. I wonder if life can be so good to you as you are to women all over the world.

– HELENA

What I love most about you is finding you in my everyday quest to resonate with a soulful life. Merci for your timely words of wisdom. It’s the idea of seek & you shall find. I found you in my quest.

– KELLYANN

A kind, thorough, and thoughtful teacher!  Homaira has taught me to listen and recognize signs in my body that suggest feelings of fear and insecurity.  Being attentive with a more open heart and mind, I have gained a stronger sense of self and thus have become more compassionate in my relationships.  What a gift!  

– BARB

Dear Homaira, you give me a lot to think about and guide me through difficult issues in my life. You give me positive energy when all I feel is negative. The people in your life are lucky to have you.

– JUDEE

You help me to step back and evaluate my actions in a calm and practical way. You help me be more accepting and tolerant, which is so appreciated.

– VICKIE NOLDEN

Dear Homaira, you give me a lot to think about and guide me through difficult issues in my life. You give me positive energy when all I feel is negative. The people in your life are lucky to have you.

– JUDEE

You help me to step back and evaluate my actions in a calm and practical way. You help me be more accepting and tolerant, which is so appreciated.

– VICKIE NOLDEN

I had not expected the journey to be as deep as it is. It also has flexible pacing, so it could be fit into a busy schedule. It’s good for someone who is self-directed and comfortable working solo, as well for shy folks who may be uncomfortable working through these topics in a group setting. 

– KATHLEEN P

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